" The warrior acts, the fools reacts"

 

I have been procrastinating about writing for a long period of time. I think because i want to write something perfect.. but perfect is not what is this blog about. it is about real!

I have learned that life could truly change within seconds... to be more specific in milliseconds. 

I remember her the famous quote of bruce lee : " be water my friend". Learning to be flexible in life is important. I have never put it into a test before. That's when i realized I love to be adventurist however I like to keep some constant things in my life. and lately, too many things have changed... too many at once. The rapid changed in my life, and sequences of things happening really threw me off.. and it is only up to this right moments that I have gained strength and clarity to look back, analyse and write. 

What does it mean to be flexible ? 

Being flexible I would say is having a strong stable core and loose limbs. Core here are the values, limbs here are the methods. The normal way I have approached my life lately was to plan my year in seasons and plan my offdays which automatically sets my active days. So although i seemed to be random, I have actually had a plan. The problem with this approach is "assuming IDEAL situations" where I was approaching life events in linear manner. Assuming that if this is to happen, it will happen alone and it will take this amount of time and it will go away. However, life events could be ALL THESE EVENTS could happen together and you have NO PREDECTION of when it will end.. leaving you in a "reaction" modem, where you are only responding as things being thrown at you. 

" The warrior acts, the fools reacts"  

Lessons learned this year throughly.. When crisis happens you address them with full effort, however, you keep a constant in your day to day life.. that is your values..(your you time, your little habits of the bigger picture, whatever makes you you). Because this life event will come and go but you are still there. So what would you do, keep on reacting to life events thrown at you? or acts in life on things that you are and things you want to achieve? 

In the past several months I have unconsciously reacting, but now I choose to act.

The truth is I would love to always feel like a nice sunset, nice sunrise, to feel like a holiday around me, to feel like an impossible task being accomplished. This is what I would love to feel and resonate. 

Anyway, I have a lot to share out of my experience and what I have gave thoughts too. 

I know you will hear it alot, and heard it alot. 

Things will be ok, 

If things don't go your way, you did not have a way to begin with. 

 until next blogging, 

create a good day.